Gay Pride Content Dominates Hate-Group Hashtag #ProudBoys on Twitter October 6, 2020

Gay Pride Content Dominates Hate-Group Hashtag #ProudBoys on Twitter

Gay men across Twitter spent the weekend bringing new meaning to the hashtag #ProudBoys.

Previously, the hashtag had been the domain of white supremacist right-wing extremists. The Proud Boys are an SPLC-designated hate group founded in the lead-up to 2016’s fateful election. They’re known for holding and propagating extreme anti-immigrant, anti-Islam, anti-LGBTQ, and anti-woman positions.

The BBC traces the current phenomenon, however, back to the night of the presidential debate, when Donald Trump failed to condemn his white supremacist supporters, directly telling the Proud Boys in particular to “stand back and stand by” and musing (rather chillingly) that “somebody’s got to do something about Antifa and the left.”

Far-right actors generally took the statement as an endorsement, adopting “stand back and stand by” as an unofficial motto and incorporating it into memes on social media, marked with the hashtag #ProudBoys.

The very next day, George Takei (of Star Trek fame) suggested flooding the very same hashtag with pictures of gay men “doing very gay things” in order to make it useless for rallying and organizing the racist far-right group:

The reference to “BTS and TikTok kids” dates back to late August, when a collection of K-pop lovers flooded hashtags like #AllLivesMatter with concert footage, anime in-jokes, and choreographed homages to their favorite stars.

And like the K-pop stans who came before them, the gay men of Twitter delivered, filling the hashtag with a rainbow-spattered celebration of gay love that’s often sweet, occasionally sassy, and always better than anything the actual Proud Boys hate group has to contribute to Twitter’s ecosystem.

Just take a look at a relatively representative sampling:

Allies also joined the fun, posting pictures of their queer-and-proud loved ones:

Takei and his husband Brad Altman soon added their own picture to the mix:

(Takei and Altman were one of the first gay couples to obtain a marriage license when California struck down its laws against same-sex marriage in 2008.)

Several of the couples posting wedding pictures spoke of long-standing relationships that suddenly became marriages three, four, five years ago… a stark reminder that marriage equality only became the law of the land in America as recently as 2015:

With rumblings surfacing in the Supreme Court about the possibility of overturning Obergefell on religious liberty grounds, the hashtag is more than just a cute way to drown out a hate group; it’s a reminder of who and what we’re fighting for.

Proud Boys chair Enrique Tarrio told CNN he doesn’t find the move offensive or insulting, just anti-free-speech:

I think it’s hysterical. This isn’t something that’s offensive to us. It’s not an insult. We aren’t homophobic. We don’t care who people sleep with.

One of the messages they want to send with this is that they’re trying to drown out our supporters, they’re trying to silence us. When you’re trying to drown out other people’s thoughts, I don’t think there’s anything progressive about that.

Once more, the far-right is weaponizing the idea of free speech to try and convince progressive people to allow them to operate unchecked, lest they be labeled intolerant or abusive. But drowning out a hate group’s hashtag is itself a form of free speech. People have banded together to tell the Proud Boys that they’re not interested in that kind of hate. And this time, they said it with rainbows.

(Featured image via Shutterstock)


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