I’m Pro-Life, Too

I fully agree. I HATE what pro-life has come to mean, particularly since I don’t see ANY policies espoused by the “pro-life party” actually supporting anything “pro-life.” When you order a preemptive war that kills hundreds of thousands of civilians to pay back the loss of 3000 civilians, that’s not pro-life. When a president is completely silent about the growing epidemic of AIDS in the 80’s, that’s not pro-life. When you vote against social programs that can make it easier for a woman to choose to continue a pregnancy, you are not pro-life.

I’m sick of pro-life being reduced down to “pro-birth.”

I’m certainly pro-choice, and I think it’s ridiculous to pretend that a 5 day old embryo is anything approaching a “person” of any kind, but I also recognize that even in the absence of religion there are actual moral issues with abortion.

I have yet to meet anyone, no matter how pro-choice, that would be comfortable with the abortion of a healthy 8 month old fetus. There is no substantive difference between that fetus and a newborn baby, something we all accept it would be totally unacceptable to kill.

So how far back is far enough? It’s a very difficult question to answer, since development is continuous. Viability is one option, but it’s tricky because it’s subject to technological advancement. We’ve gone into the 6 month range for viability in the western world, so does that make aborting at 6 months more acceptable in a poor country than a rich one? And what happens when (and this will happen) the entire pregnancy can potentially occur extra-utero? Will that suddenly make all abortion morally unacceptable? Birth defects open a whole kettle of fish of their own.

I guess my point is that it’s an actually complicated issue, with many different shades of gray, all of them highly uncomfortable. I understand and support fighting for the right of a woman to make such determinations on her own with her doctor, but I don’t we should react to the absurd over-simplification of the other side with over-simplifications of our own.

I’ve been telling people to use the term “Anti-Abortion” for years now. The main reason though is because the term “pro-life” gives up part of the debate right there in the labels we use. Whenever two people go on TV (or whatever) and they are described as “pro-life” and “pro-choice” the pro-choice speaker has already lost. Usually they also only argue that women should be allowed to “choose”, but they never expand more than that. So for an undecided person, if the point of it being a “life” is never challenged, then how can there be a choice. The debate needs to be “pro-life” vrs “it’s not a life and you have no right to force that idea on me!”

Claudia makes an excellent point. Abortion is at its heart a moral issue. At the moment of conception a human life has begun. This is a scientifically accepted biological fact. The question now arises, what status do we give to that life? At the present time the mother has the absolute right to end her child’s life regardless of circumstances up to the 9th month of pregnancy. If anyone else ends that life they can be charged with a crime, but the mother and the medical personnel who assist her in the abortion are not guilty of any crime. We can talk about gray areas, what ifs, exceptions to the rule until we are blue in the face, but we know the unborn child is a human being with potential, not a potential human being.

The George Carlin piece does not shed any light on the subject, only heat. The number of lies, half-truths, and hateful insults he hurls in 8 minutes were too numerous to count and would take too long to respond to here, so let it suffice to say that he and those who believe what he says are badly misinformed or purposefully ignorant about the work that is being done by men and women of many faiths to make the world a better place for crack addicts, unwed mothers, alcoholics, pre-school children, etc. Oversimplifications such as Carlin’s should not be applauded and laughed at but challenged.

At the moment of conception a human life has begun. This is a scientifically accepted biological fact.

As far as I can see, the moral value of a human life comes from having a unique personality and experiences, and what sets human beings apart from other animals is the complexity of our relationships and our capacity for abstract thought, which make human minds in a sense greater and more valuable (precisely how much value should be given to non-human minds is a separate, complex issue).

While there might be room for debate on when exactly a fetus should be thought of as a child, the “at conception” standard simply makes no sense to me. Before the brain forms and cognition is at least theoretically possible, there’s no possibility for experience, thought, emotion, self-identity, or that nebulous thing we call consciousness. Before that point, a fetus is only a piece of tissue that happens to contain human DNA. Maybe a particularly interesting piece of tissue, but one with less personality than my dog, or, for that matter, a mosquito.

What I don’t get is how so many pro-life Christians can also be so hardcore about supporting the death penalty. They claim only God can take somebody’s life as the reason for why abortion should be illegal but turn around and support the death penalty for criminals. It’d be like being pacifist and supporting the Iraq war at the same time.

At the present time the mother has the absolute right to end her child’s life regardless of circumstances up to the 9th month of pregnancy.

This is false. I can’t speak for every country, but in the United States and the UK, the time limit for abortions “regardless of circumstances” is 24 weeks. After 24 weeks, abortions are generally available only in order to preserve the health and life of a woman or in cases of severe fetal abnormality.

There is no middle ground on the anti-abortion\pro-choice debate. They are addressing different questions. The anti-abortion crowd say that it is wrong to end a life and define life as a fertilised egg onward. The pro-choice crowd say that it is wrong to remove the decision of a woman’s reproductive freedom from the woman. Completely different questions. One centres on the developing child and the other on the mother.

Personally a living, breathing human being who is capable of making decisions trumps a bunch of cells that don’t even resemble a human and have no ability to make decisions any day. I just doesn’t make sense the other way around.

It’s tough. Though I left religion behind a while ago, the “life begins at conception” thing still makes the most sense to me. I understand there are equally-valid viewpoints that disagree with that, but I’m not so sure I subscribe to them. Further complicating this issue is that it’s really unique in that both “sides,” for lack of a better term, have a fundamental right on the line here. In and of itself, I have a very hard time condemning somebody who wants to protect the voiceless unborn. That said, these are very often the same people who:
1) Support the death penalty
2) Support pre-emptive warfare
3) Oppose proper sexual education, which leads to more unplanned marriages
4) Oppose accessibility of reliable birth control, which leads to more unplanned pregnancies
5) Endorse a homophobia that often causes young gays and lesbians to have straight sex to “prove” themselves, which leads to more unplanned pregnancies
6) Will turn out daughters who get pregnant, which leads to more unwanted children
7) Oppose allowing gay couples to adopt, which leads to more unwanted children.

The above positions all make their “pro-life” stance completely hypocritical, and the final five not only don’t contribute to the solution, but are part of the problem. You say that abortion is morally wrong? Fine. Don’t actively create the situations that lead to more unwanted children who are the most likely to be aborted.

Very well said Claudia.

I’m a pro-life atheist, but I can surely respect and appreciate your position and the manner in which you present it.

Much better that this garbage about “respecting a woman’s right to choose” or hating women. It’s a complicated issue of life; those that make false claims about ulterior motives argue points largely tangential to the actual crux of the matter.

They claim only God can take somebody’s life as the reason for why abortion should be illegal but turn around and support the death penalty for criminals.

Off topic, but there is a great conservative/small government argument against the death penalty. The same people that say the government can’t do anything right are the same people who are against any opposition to government planned executions and government declared wars. Well, is the government incompetent or not?

Do they expect me to believe the only thing the government is any good at is deciding who to kill, and they suck at everything else?

The right using the term “pro – life” is as stupid and inconsistent with the rest of their philosophies as the left using the term “pro – choice”.

Mr. Mehta,

– It would seem to me that abortion violates the golden rule don’t do to others what you would not want done to yourself. Forgive me for being blunt for a moment but if your parents had an abortion you wouldn’t be here claiming it’s a “right.”

– A zygote clearly is not apart of the woman’s body because of the separate genome. The separate and distinct genome means it’s a new entity and it is wrong to terminate it.

– Everyone knows in back of their heads that pro-choice people just want premarital copulation without consequences.

A pro-choice individual may be pro-life-that-is-already-born. Conservatives are pro-all-life.

“Conservatives are pro-all-life.”

Unless, of course, that life is one they deem to be no longer worthwhile. Or happens to live in a country whose leaders they don’t like. Or gets in the way of the profit of multinationals. Then killing is totally cool.

>> Unless, of course, that life is one they deem to be no longer worthwhile.

Right. A murderer forfeits his own life.

>> Or happens to live in a country whose leaders they don’t like.

So, Saddam Hussein and the Taliban were all wonderful lil angels? XD

>> Or gets in the way of the profit of multinationals.

Paranoid rant.

“Right. A murderer forfeits his own life.”

Even if true, puts a ding in the “pro-all-life” claim, doesn’t it?

“So, Saddam Hussein and the Taliban were all wonderful lil angels? XD”

How about the hundreds of thousands of civilians who have died in the conflict?

“Paranoid rant.”

How much shit do you own that says Made In China/India/Pakistan/Third-world country with little-to-no respect for the basic human rights of its workforce?

>> Even if true, puts a ding in the “pro-all-life” claim, doesn’t it?

Naa. The difference is murderer and not a murderer.

>> How about the hundreds of thousands of civilians who have died in the conflict?

It is a sad truth that there’s going to be collateral damage when you go to war to turn a dictatorship into a democracy. Fact is, countless more lives were saved since Saddam’s execution is dead and with his regime gone.

>> How much shit do you own that says Made In China/India/Pakistan/Third-world country with little-to-no respect for the basic human rights of its workforce?

It would seem to me that small wages and small prices for products is the natural order. All the minimum wage did is send companies overseas instead of hiring Americans so the same people the minimum wage was intended to help ends up getting screwed.

I’m actually kinda close to Sean’s position on this one, with a slight difference.

We currently define the death of a human as cessation of brain activity – aka “Brain Death”:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brain_death

So – shouldn’t the opposite apply to a pre-term embryo? This isn’t new:

http://tigtogblog.blogspot.com/2006/05/fetal-brain-development-myths-and.html

This is a discussion/debate between the myth of “brain function in an embryo at 40 days”; versus the reality of true brain function beginning at around 22-27 weeks…

This falls in line with what is generally considered “legal” for an abortion in the US, at least (6 months/24 weeks – although a wikipedia article mentions something recent possibly lowering it to 22-23 weeks?)…

Make no mistake, though – abortion should be considered a potential last option, but up until it isn’t legal for the mother to have one anymore (unless it is a case of the mother’s life or wellbeing, of course, or something wrong with the fetus developing) – I support the right of the mother to choose (including the right to carry to term a fetus that could potentially endanger her, or one that has development issues).

Her body, her choice.

SJ, some people are not big fans of existing; some people do not want to exist (yes, you read that right), so your Golden Rule argument is moot. Keep in mind that people are not asked if they want to be born or not. It can be argued that this is an unfair practice.

If Mehti’s mom had an abortion, he would neither know nor care, so don’t use that argument, either. By your logic, women should be held down, raped, and forced to go through pregnancy because human existance is “oh so important.” Make sure to tie me down first because I’m childfree so I’ll, you know, be denying a person their “right to life.” ::rolls eyes::

Also, I’m pro-choice and an asexual life-long virgin (you read that right), so I don’t give a fig about “copulation” thank you very much. I’m just not a fan of favoring cells who may or may not want to exist and aren’t even capable of caring whether they exist or not over a full grown adult woman.

“Pro-lifers” are pro-cells. They could give a flying fig about the people who are already here. Their agenda is to have complete control over women to the point where all women are back in the kitchen with a lot of children. Oh, and there will be a lot of dead women and children. And limited resoures for everyone (including packed to the brim adoption centers). That’s what happens when abortion is made illegal. (Truth) Of course, the pro-lifers don’t seem to understand that by making abortions illegal, they won’t be able to get their abortions, either. Yes, they get abortions. That’s why they need to be ignored.

If you have a problem with abortions, advocate for comprehensive sex ed and readily-available contraception. Also, don’t have an abortion yourself.

And zygotes aren’t “separate” from women’s bodies. They depend on women’ bodies for survival. We’re talking about humans here. Get your facts right, please.

Edit: I see that abortions because of rape are a-okay with you. Well then. I’m in the clear. Unfortunately that means you don’t actually care about the pre-born. You have moral issues with sex. That’s fine. Whatever floats your boat. But get your own life and keep your moral issues off of women’s bodies. Thanks a ton.

The separate genome of the zygote/fetus makes it so that it is not taking control of the women’s body. It’s protecting the rights of a new life.

>> I see that abortions because of rape are a-okay with you.

Not on a purely objective level but I realize the concern of women regarding this issue.

“Everyone knows in back of their heads that pro-choice people just want premarital copulation without consequences.”

It’s not premarital copulation if you never get married…

Abortions are legal, get over it.
When everyone has sex just for procreation, then you can outlaw abortion.

“but if your parents had an abortion you wouldn’t be here claiming it’s a “right.”” My parents got together because they met at a navy party, got wildly drunk, had unprotected sex, and she got knocked up. So, by your reasoning, I should be out trying to make sure there are as many drunken navy parties as possible, because, but for a certain navy party in the eighties, I would not exist. So, if my neighbors throw a drunken party and have sex on the lawn, I should never complain, because, hell, but for similar circumstances, my parents would never have met or got together. There are millions of things that, if they hadn’t happened, I would not have existed, and some of them are flat out terrible, like the oppression that caused my greatgrandparents to flee northern ireland.

On the ‘personhood’ issue, I am going to link to Judith Jarvis Thomson’s brilliant paper ‘A Defense of Abortion’, which looks at the ethical implications of taking the notion of the fetus as person as true. http://spot.colorado.edu/~heathwoo/Phil160,Fall02/thomson.htm (this is also an excellent read for people like claudia)

A rape exception is completely contradictory to the notion of fetus as person. I know a wonderful woman who was the product of rape, would it be okay for her mother to go and shoot her right now? What about a five year old who was the product of rape or incest? Would you be okay with killing them? If not, then you really don’t think that a fetus is a person if you make a rape exception. The theory your opposition to abortion is based on is not, in fact, fetal personhood, but rather the notion that women deserve to be punished for sex.

SJ

I think abortion should be disallowed unless it was a rape.

With this comment you have demonstrated that your position (a developing life from the moment of conception is more valuable than the right of the woman to choose what to do with her body) is inconsistent. It isn’t the “baby’s” fault that it is the product of rape or incest, is it. That you’d give consideration to the mother above the “innocent baby” shows that it is her responsibility.

Good for you. Now all you need to do is extend this and stop trying to interfere with how women choose to control who and what they share their bodies with.

This is what I get for commented just before going to bed…

At the moment of conception a human life has begun. This is a scientifically accepted biological fact.

Really? Care to cite the paper?

At the present time the mother has the absolute right to end her child’s life regardless of circumstances up to the 9th month of pregnancy.

Again, cite your sources.

“Pro life” is more like anti woman or anti choice.

Calling them anti-woman is as false as calling someone pro-choice anti-baby or pro-death. Are there anti-women pro-lifers? Yes, absolutely. Can you merely declare that because they adscribe rights to a fetus they hate women? No. Once you’ve established that a fetus has rights, it then becomes a conflict between two entities with rights, the woman and the unborn child. I would dispute the notion that a zygote is a “person” and has any rights, but I would consider an 8-month old healthy fetus as having rights. At that point you’re negotiating when rights begin, which is a legitimate debate. You can decide that at a given point the rights of the “baby” (or whatever you call it at that point) supercede those of the “mother” without holding any malice towards the woman. To pretend that all pro-life positions are born (ejem) from a dislike of women is dishonest.

I think abortion should be disallowed unless it was a rape.

You are admitting with this statement that you do not truly consider a fetus to be a “baby”. No one would consider it acceptable to murder a newborn infant, even if it were the product of rape. There is no physical difference between a fetus from a loving consensual act or from a brutal rape. The fact you contemplate an exception reveals that no matter what you say you believe, you recognize that a fetus is not really equal to a baby. The only other alternative is that you consider killing a baby to be an acceptable act to prevent severa emotional distress in a woman, a position I would not support.

RE: Comparing abortion to the death penalty. If you justify being against abortion because “all life is sacred” then yes, it’s hypocrisy. Catholics are anti-choice and anti-death penalty for this very reason. However if you consider only the elimination of innoccent life to be a crime, there is no hypocrisy. The life of an infant is not equal to the life of a murderer in this framing, so that support for the death penalty need not be a sign of hypocrisy in those that are pro-life.

@The Captain, a great explanation of your position, and one I mostly share. I disagree that we can reject the notion of consciousness before birth outright, but then consciousness is such a poorly defined term that we’d have to start by defining that before we got anywhere. For me, abortion is totally non-controversial before the development of a nervous system (around the 3rd month) and then gets gradually more morally complex as time goes on.

Sean, my point was not that brain activity shouldn’t be the deciding point (of all the in-pregnancy standards I’ve seen, that one makes the most sense), it was just that I didn’t like comparing it to brain death. You said that 30% of pregnancies end in miscarriage, but that still means 70% make it to term. If there was a 70% chance somebody who had brain death would recover, well A) they wouldn’t call it brain death, and B) it wouldn’t be legal cause to pull the plug.

@Claudia:

The problem you’re suggesting is a canard that has been trotted out by the anti-woman crowd for so long. These supposed women who decide at eight months “oh, I just don’t want a baby anymore” are so rare it’s statistically negligible. The vast majority of late term abortions are performed on women who otherwise want their babies, but something tragic happens and they cannot bring them to viability or delivering / carrying the baby will harm or outright kill the mother.

Unless there’s some extreme circumstances in the matter, a person is not going to carry a baby for eight months if they don’t want to be pregnant.

@SJ:

Everyone knows in back of their heads that pro-choice people just want premarital copulation without consequences.

I can play this game too! Everyone knows in the back of their heads that pro-life people just want women to be baby factories.

@Robert W: what a priceless example of the simplistic black-and-white thinking that anti-abortionists seem to revel in.

Apparently you consider that a process which has started is already complete. If I were to follow that logic I would conclude that your brain has decayed to oblivion.

Stephen,

Apparently you consider that a process which has started is already complete.

So a life by your definition that is in process is not worth protecting? I consider it complete enough to protect the life of the unborn.

I don’t consider the life of the unborn any less valuable then the life of a newborn infant. To consider it anything less then a life ( even with twisted logic that it is a life in progress) is simply an attempt to rationalize the decision to kill that life.

By your logic, from the scientific perspective, because the process isn’t complete, it wouldn’t be taking a life to kill a newborn. Or for that matter a ten year old child because he or she hasn’t reached puberty. Very scary if you have children.

@Robert:

I don’t exactly understand your sentence, but the “abortion only in case of rape or incest” clause is an untenable position.

How can one determine whether someone has been raped / become pregnant through incest?

Kevin,

It’s a very weird dichotomy and I have a hard time reconciling it, but I think that it’s the only way to believe. No one should be allowed to determine what someone else is able to do with their own body, even if that means letting the extremely rare, eight-month pregnant woman have an abortion because she doesn’t want the baby.

The woman who decided to have sex and then decided to carry her baby to eight months has already decided what to do with her body. She can’t then also decide to kill the child inside of her. She lost that right when she brought a life, by your reasoning to the point of viability.

Laws should be in place to protect the vulnerable and not just to protect those who have made conscious decisions that affect the innocent.

Robert, you do realize that A) that process can take months, and B) you would see an increase in rape claims if that was the only way to abort a child, right?

@Robert W:

All you’re doing is slut shaming, I’m sorry. This:

The woman who decided to have sex [snip]

is the essence of slut shaming. It’s despicable. The rest of that post isn’t much better.

[snip] then decided to carry her baby to eight months has already decided what to do with her body. She can’t then also decide to kill the child inside of her. She lost that right when she brought a life, by your reasoning to the point of viability.

Laws should be in place to protect the vulnerable and not just to protect those who have made conscious decisions that affect the innocent.

Why? It’s her body. Again, this is an exceedingly rare case. The vast majority of late-term abortions are performed because something tragic happens. Very few (I say statistically negligible) women decide at eight months to abort solely because they don’t want the child.

But even so, why does someone else get to determine what a person can do with their body? This is the heart of the matter. A living human being is telling another human being what they can and can’t do within the confines of their own body. It’s ownership, it’s pure misogynistic, patriarchal ownership.

I agree that it would be difficult to determine that a woman was pregnant through rape or incest. There would have to be a process to determine that, but the difficulty of making that determination should not deter the ultimate goal of stopping abortion on demand.

What you’re failing to understand here is that there is no way to determine whether someone has been raped aside from their own admission of it. Lots of women do not report rape even without pregnancy because they’re not believed. If it was to terminate an unwanted pregnancy, how much more would a justice system look into the matter? That poor girl would be tortured by the justice system, dragged into a horrible situation, having to recall her rape.

Stopping ‘abortion on demand’ as you call it is a despicable goal. Contraception is enough to prevent a pregnancy, but if that fails, why should someone be forced to go through a situation they’re not ready or not willing to go through? Making abortion illegal will not stop abortions. They’ll exist regardless. The only thing criminalizing abortion will do is kill the women who are forced to perform horribly risky procedures because a condom broke.

Whining about what abortion opposers call themselves is as stupid and inconsequential as conservatives whining about gay people stealing the rainbow. The issues are the issues. The labels are basically pronouns so you don’t have to say “abortion opposers”.

It’s a very weird dichotomy and I have a hard time reconciling it, but I think that it’s the only way to believe. No one should be allowed to determine what someone else is able to do with their own body, even if that means letting the extremely rare, eight-month pregnant woman have an abortion because she doesn’t want the baby.

The woman should have the right to end her pregnancy, but does she have the right to demand that the fetus be destroyed? At eight months gestation? I would say no. That makes no sense to me. It’s way past the point of viability, and if there are no medical reasons to terminate the life of the fetus, I don’t see why it would be acceptable to do so.

That’s the dichotomy I have trouble reconciling. In one way, to refuse such would be limiting what a person could do with their own body. On the other hand, the child is viable. It’s really not a topic that should have to be questioned though, since the number of women terminating for not wanting the child that late is statistically negligible. It’s a little bit dark of a suggestion, but you still should not be allowed to force a woman to birth a child she doesn’t want.

As I see it, the main issue is forced pregnancy. No woman should be forced to continue a pregnancy if she doesn’t want to. However, terminating the pregnancy does not necessarily mean terminating the life of the fetus. If the fetus is healthy and viable, I do not believe the woman should have the right to demand that it be killed.

I am not sure of how abortions at eight months are conducted when they need to be, but it is no simple procedure. If this hypothetical woman wanted to end her pregnancy at eight months, she would need to go through a very unpleasant and intensive medical procedure regardless. I don’t think it would be inappropriate for doctors to tell her that she can certainly end her pregnancy, but she will not be able to end the life of the fetus.

@Anna:

Perhaps so. Rather, we could just call this hypothetical woman an idiot and send her home XD

But no, seriously. I would imagine in that extremely rare case they would put her through forced labor of some kind (correct me if I’m wrong) as by that point it’s likely more dangerous with surgery. The baby would be born, and unwanted. As long as there’s no attempt to provide a requirement for the woman to follow, a late-term termination like that would probably be what they would do.

Robert

I am pro-life and if it was necessary to allow for abortion in the event of rape to outlaw it on demand, I would reluctantly agree to that.

Why? If your position is that the fetus is a life in its own right with the same rights as an adult then why would you kill it because of what happened to one parent. It is entirely inconsistent and impractical.

Robert W.

The point I was making was that once the lady is pregnant it is no longer just her body.

Really? Whose is it? I think if you check you’ll find that ownership of her body doesn’t transfer to another party when she gets pregnant.

There is another life whose rights need to be taken into consideration. So at that point she shouldn’t have the unfettered right to do with it what she wants.

Why not? Are you suggesting that she should be forced to behave in prescribed ways because she is pregnant? Who defines these draconian rules for women? What about the man who got her pregnant. Does he have to live by a set of silly rules too? She is responsible for her body, no-one else. You try to take that away from a person and you’ll have a fight on your hands.

Hoverfrog,

Once a lady is pregnant there are two bodies involved, not just hers.

Are you suggesting that she should be forced to behave in prescribed ways because she is pregnant?

I am suggesting that she should not be allowed to kill the other life that is sharing her body for a short time.

@Anna:

Well, there are some, but they’re statistically negligible. The vast, vast majority of women in their eighth month of pregnancy are not aborting because they just don’t want the baby. It’s almost entirely medical. If a woman is carrying to eight months, you can be 99.999% sure she wants the baby.

@Anna:

More than likely they’d be going through some illegal / alternative route.

Kevin,

Consequences of sex = Unwanted pregnancy. Don’t have sex if you don’t want to get pregnant. Slut shouldn’t have had sex, it’s her fault the condom broke.

I never said anything of the sort.

That’s what I’m getting from your statement. An amorous couple should be forced to endure a physically torturous nine month long life-changing situation because of an accident.

And the life they create should be killed because condom broke? Talk about life changing for the baby.

If you refuse to see the many documented cases of women dying because of illegal abortions, you’re clearly a misogynist. These aren’t just women who are single and young who die. These are mothers, sisters, daughters, women with lives and futures all cut down because ‘look at the widdle baybee.’

Wow you have an unfortunate view of babies. Of course women dying from illegal abortions is a tragedy. But it is not an either or proposition. It is not abortion on demand or women die from illegal abortions. That is a false argument. The two don’t have a casual connection.

Further, this is not the 1960’s so the argument that women will die from illegal abortions is not as it was back then when Roe v. Wade was decided. There are many safer alternatives for the occasion of when the condom breaks such as the morning after pill which will prevent conception from taking place at all.

Just so you know, I have the utmost respect an admiration for women. I am married and have a grown daughter. I also have a son. If my daughter got pregnant i would counsel her against an abortion. if my son got a girl pregnant i would counsel him to accept the responsibilities of his actions. I would do all I could to help them through that difficult situation. But I see no need to kill the unborn child because the next nine months might be hard for either of them.

@robert, ” is not abortion on demand or women die from illegal abortions. ” Yes it is. All credible data on this issue shows that countries where abortion is illegal have higher, not lower abortion rates. Considering that the rate of serious complication of unsafe abortion results 13% of deaths of pregnant women worldwide, this is a huge fucking problem right now. The only reason that we no longer have illegal abortion as one of the highest causes of death for women in the US and western europe is precisely because of the increased access to safe, medical abortion. (http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/fb_IAW.html, their sources are also cited at the bottom of their page)

Also, the notion that people should ever loose rights over their bodies is bullshit and does, in fact, indicate that you hate women and that you do not give a shit about the rights of pregnant women who decide to continue the pregnancy either. Women who wanted their baby have been charged with murder and child abuse for refusing c-section under the very ‘personhood’ laws you think are so wonderful. Also, as explained in detail in the Thomson piece I linked, even if the embryo were a person, it would still not have rights over someone else’s body. We don’t do forced kidney removal because people are matches, even though that would save millions, because we grant that people own their own damned bodies and don’t have to share their organs with anyone.

In addition, the anti-choicer idea that pregnancy is someone negligible in effect is ridiculous on its face. Carrying a full term pregnancy permanently changes a person’s body and carries huge medical risks. You can even see the effects of full term pregnancy on skeletons, because it permanantly alters the bone structure. One in ten people have serious complications. Asking someone to carry a pregnancy to term is asking them to take a one in ten risk of severe, life threatening health problems, not to mention all of the not potentially fatal symptoms and the social risks (employment, violence, etc.). Pregnancy and birth isn’t all rainbows and sunshine. My sister’s last pregnancy almost killed her.

In addition, in the US, 60% of women who have abortions are already mothers. You seem to think that these women are horrible baby haters, but the huge majority of women who have abortions raise children at some point. The very people who are deciding to have abortions are the ones loving and raising the babies, so fuck your false dicotomy of ‘good baby loving women’ and ‘evil baby killers’.

From a scientific standpoint, if it doesn’t start with conception then when does it start?

So far as I’m aware there is no official scientific position on this matter, especially considering the definition of “life” you’re probably working from.

By the way, how do you define life?

Oh sure an embryo is alive in the strict sense of the term. So are bacteria, which FYI outnumber you inside your body 10 to 1. There is nothing particularly special, from the scientific standpoint, of male and female gametes (themselve also alive) fusing to form a zygote. No more special than the zygote sucessfuly implanting itself in the uterus (which happens only in roughly half of cases), invasively burrowing into the tissue until it finds the bloodstream from which it will feed.

You assert that a fertilized egg is “life”. Once you’ve defined what you mean by life, I’d love to hear from you your rationale for giving rights to that life and excluding them from, say, fully grown cows.

“I disagree that I am slut shaming. That was not my intent at all … But there are consequences to those decisions and one of them is an unwanted pregnancy.”

Slut shaming may not be what you specifically intended, but it is the consequence of your position. You are basically saying, “Sex has consequences, bitch, shut up and take it.”

If you don’t like the way that sounds, perhaps you should more carefully consider your position, and the consequences of using the government to enforce your opinion against women.

Mtran, Anna, Sean, et al,

Conception is the moment at which a separate, new human life begins. This is an indisputable biological fact(talk to any rational, honest biologist). If a human life does not begin at conception when does it begin? To justify the ending of a human life one must reduce the unborn child (zygote, embryo, fetus are all terms used to describe different stages of development just as infant, toddler, teenager are used once the child is born) to a status of less than human. Easily done because the child is not seen or heard, but nonetheless remains a human being. A tadpole is a frog without legs, but is still a frog just not a fully developed one. An unborn baby at every stage is a human being, just not a fully developed one. At 8 weeks (about the time most abortions occur) a baby’s brain is adding 100 new cells/minute, the heart is completely formed and beating, arms and legs are being formed, etc. Once fully developed in the womb the child looks just like a human being! How can this happen unless it is genetically completely human from the start? Simple, it can’t. Newly conceived human beings are never born as reptiles, amphibians, birds, or any other mammal. No sane person will deny this fact.

So in order to end its life we must convince ourselves the unborn child is less than human. Sean/Hoverfrog your argument is extremely dangerous and even terrifying. It is the same argument used by the Nazis to justify the “Final Solution”, the American government’s argument to justify the extermination/removal of Native Americans and it is still being used by those who practice genocide. Over 50 million American babies have been killed in their mother’s wombs since 1973. How many more millions will be sacrificed on the altar of a woman’s right to choose? No one has the right to choose evil and the taking of innocent, vulnerable human life is horribly evil.

A newborn child is just as dependent on its mother for life as it was the day before it was born, but if the mother decided at the last minute to abort her child (and believe it she could find a doctor who would) the child’s life would end and there would be no criminal consequences for that murder. If we use dependency as the norm for determining a child’s right to live, how old must the child be before it is safe from its mother’s will? Is this really the direction we want to move in as a society? StephenP states that the creation of a human life is a process that doesn’t complete itself until puberty. We’re not fully human until puberty? Doesn’t anyone see the nightmare that awaits us if his logic ever becomes the norm?

Finally, what I am hearing as the undercurrent in many of the arguments provided by my atheist brothers and sisters is that there is nothing special about any human life. We are all here for just a short period of time anyway so whether we live or die or how we live and die really doesn’t matter. Is my perception correct or am I overreacting?

“Conception is the moment at which a separate, new human life begins.”

Stan, this is not what you initially said nor is it how most antiabortionists phrase it. I already addressed that issue. You just don’t like being called on your sloppy thinking while you act as if you have all the answers which other people should accept and enforce by law.

“So in order to end its life we must convince ourselves the unborn child is less than human.”

I do nothing of the sort. The question is not whether an embryo or fetus is “human.” The question is at what point and under what conditions do we give supporters of an embryo police power and governmental authority to force a woman to maintain a pregnancy, go through labor and child birth, and provide ~20 years of care to another person?

My answer to that question is “Never.”

My preference would be that no woman ever had to face the situation where this needed to be asked.

Mtran,

This is what I originally said, but because you said I wasn’t being clear enough I restated the fact in a more specific way so that you and others would be clear.

You are having difficulty with the scientific absolute, but are definitely an absolutist when it comes to a woman’s right to choose. You have no problem with ending the life of an unborn child even if you know it to be human. Most people do have a problem with that because the question is whether or not the baby is human. If the baby isn’t human there is no debate, but because he/she is we have a moral dilemma.

Every human being from conception to death should be treated with dignity and respect. In life we are constantly confronted as individuals and as a community with choices. The Supreme Court has ruled that the right to life does not trump a woman’s right to choose. It also once ruled that blacks weren’t human beings and that facilities for blacks and whites could be separate but equal. Supreme Court decisions can be overturned. This is what will happen eventually exactly because the unborn child is a human being.

Anti-woman. Think I’ll stick with Carlin on that. Exactly. And, yes, it is no matter how you stretch it. There is no way around that fact. It is women — and, when all’s said and done — only women who are being enslaved to carrying a life they don’t want to, being forced to undergo the phsyical and emotional trauma of whatever decision she makes.

When you vote against social programs that can make it easier for a woman to choose to continue a pregnancy, you are not pro-life.

Alise, I think I love you for that one!

I don’t care if it can play the piano, no one has the right to use a woman’s body without permission, period. So whether or not you consider a fertilized egg as much of a human as an adult woman, that “person” still does not have that right.

Absolutely. That’s where I stand on it too. It doesn’t really matter if it’s a viable human being or not. If it depends on you for life, while being a drain on yours, you have the right to rid yourself of it. End of discussion.

It only becomes trickier issue at say 8 months because it might be sustained outside a woman’s body. Per Claudia’s example, that’s not an issue until it happens, if ever. There are numerous problems with babies born prematurely. We haven’t even been able to overcome those 100%. It’s premature to talk about what doesn’t even exist yet and may or may not in the future. It doesn’t exist so why is it being brought up? Making a decision re abortion based on what isn’t the current reality is absurd.

Now, by using the word “host”, I’m not trying to imply that a fetus is parasitizing its mother.

It can’t be helped but it is. Only those mothers willing to host such a life because they want the baby should. No woman should be forced to. Now cue the morons who will call me a horrible mother and grandmother for saying something so blatantly true despite the fact that I hosted such a life within me — conceived it in fact — because I wanted to bring said life into this world to love and nurtur.

go to war to turn a dictatorship into a democracy

Wow, do you not even recognize the inconsistency with that phrase?

It would seem to me that small wages and small prices for products is the natural order. All the minimum wage did is send companies overseas instead of hiring Americans so the same people the minimum wage was intended to help ends up getting screwed.

So you want to go back to tenaments, sweat shops, child labor and the Triangle Shirt Factory disaster which is what we have without minimum wage and fair labor standards.

An excellent history of labor in America

As for the last bit, no, greedy rich assholes did that and the government should be doing one hell of a lot more to stop it but unfortunately mostly consists of greedy rich assholes who forget how it played out when we previously had robber barons and are now bailing out those robber barons with the tax money of those they exploit rather than making them suffer the consequences of their greed. Don’t get me freaking started. (Too late!)

the next nine months might be hard

Wow, and you actually limited that to nine months after telling you have two adult children which rather means you should know better. And, yes, it’ll be hard even if you give said child up for adoption. I think we’ve seen enough of adopted children seeking out their birth parents and vice versa to realize that by now. Unless we’re living under a rock or burying ourselves in a fantasy instead of reality.

@cat:

Well said. Good job. 🙂

I was brainwashed by anti-choice propaganda in Catholic school, which amounted to slut-shaming and “look at the widdle baybee” and lots and lots of half-truths and outright lies. In fact, I have an anti-choice drawing I did in for a class, depicting an eight- or nine-month pregnant woman receiving a bottle of pills from an off-screen person behind a desk who was saying something flippant and sociopathic about making the cute little baby history. This was not me making up my own facts–this was literally the working concept of abortion I had, based entirely on what I had been taught about it. As I looked at this image as a better-informed adult, I was struck by the multiple levels of inaccuracy inherent in it, as well as what that implied. I was too young to be told all the facts about pregnancy and abortion (what with their inherent ‘sinfulness’), but I wasn’t too young to be indoctrinated with lies and half-truths and emotional propaganda about a subject I was too young to understand.

I think the first time I began to realize that the anti-choice (“pro-life”, my ass) position was bullshit was when I heard someone with pro-choice sympathies comment on the results of illegal abortions and the anti-choicer said “Good for the god-damn sluts, they should bleed to death behind a dumpster! I have no sympathy for those god-damn baby-killing whores!” I was still a child and it would take years before I would learn the truth, but that “pro-life” comment really horrified me beyond belief and it still does.

As far as I’m concerned, slut-shaming and demonized sex is the motive behind the anti-choice movement, whether it is conscious or subconscious. In the first case, they certainly won’t come right out and say it in polite society (usually), and in the second case it’s often just rationalization. I’ve seen little to convince me otherwise.

My sister said something to the effect of “don’t like being pregnant, then dont’ have sex, WHORE!” (I am not embellishing, BTW). I told her to stop pretending to be “in it for the baybee” because she is in essence claiming that a child’s life is a punishment to be inflicted on a WHORE, with no concern for how that affects the “widdle baybee” (especially since she has conniptions about poor people and people on welfare having the audacity to breed and then ask for help, even as she wants to deny them reproductive choice–just like in Carlin’s piece–who cares if a “widdle baybee” starves to death? so long as it’s born my job is done and I can wash my hands of anything further). I also told her that being pro- or anti-choice is not based on whether you would personally get an abortion and is rather based on whether you think other women should be able to make that choice for themselves. You could completely reject abortion for yourself and still be pro-choice.

She’s changed her mind recently. Or is at least on her way. She’s decided that, while she would never be able to live with an abortion and would prefer adoption, she feels that other women should be able to make that choice according to their own conscience too, and that women who have sex are not, by default, “whores” who somehow “deserve” punishment. Of course, she had a scare that made the issue a little clearer for her, and she has fortunately been able to extend how she felt (“how dare anyone tell me what to do with my body/medical decisions!”) to other women, rather than cement her insistence that other women be held to her conscience.

I’m kind of proud of her for that. So many anti-choicers never learn that even when they do have a scare–just look at that “The Only Moral Abortion is My Abortion” and see how many make themselves the sole exception to the “slut” rule.

Conception is the moment at which a separate, new human life begins. This is an indisputable biological fact(talk to any rational, honest biologist).

Well, I like to think of myself as a rational, honest biologist (biochemist really, but it’s more semantics). I’ve asked you to cite me the relevant papers where it was scientifically established when a “a separate, new human life begins” or even what is meant, scientifically, by “a separate, new human life”. You have failed to do so.

I’m sorry, but you are doing two things which are throughly unscientific. First of all, you are claiming that a given belief of yours is a “scientifically established fact” when it is nothing of the sort. You haven’t even defined what a “separate human life” is. The second and far worse of your errors is your belief that you can use the authority of science to enforce a moral judgement. Even if you were to demonstrate that science has actually come down on “life starting at conception” (which, again, you have failed to do despite repeated requests) you would still have to do the work of proving that a zygote is the same kind of life of a 3 year old child or of a 25 year old woman and hence entitled to the same sorts of rights. You have not done that, but simply left it as self-evident from your premise, which itself relies on a false authority from science.

I’m receptive towards certain arguments against abortion, particularly in the later stages (before the 3rd month, I find it as morally objectionable as getting a tooth pulled), but your attempt to put a scientific sheen on what are obviously beliefs with an unscientific origin is objectionable. Frankly your argument about when neural development starts is a lot more compelling. Unlike your assertion about “when life starts” there is actual documented scientific data about the various steps of fetal development and a legitimate argument can be had about which steps are most important. But for that you need to restrict yourself to that which science actually says, not what you think it must say because it’s so obvious to you.

I love how most of this anti-choice rhetoric is going in circles, trying to say that abortions are wrong because they are killing innocent “babies” but then saying “unless it’s rape”, to which I wonder if the value of those cells is any different because of how the semen arrived there. I also wonder if they only use the “except for rape” clause only to not look like monsters, and if they would even recognize spousal rape.
I also wonder if anyone touting these absurdly inaccurate “facts” has ever looked at a medical gestational chart has any idea that about 61% of abortions are obtained by women who have one or more children*. As in, they are loving mothers who care about their actual, existing families and make hard choices that are best- for actual, breathing, living children who need to eat and go to school.

Then there’s the trivialization of a woman’s experience of pregnancy and labor, both of which are very risky and dangerous. The men spouting this anti-choice bullshit haven’t even had to suffer a menstrual cramp, and they have the gall to say that it’s “not that bad”.

The entire premise is wholly, disgustingly anti-woman. Woman are not incubators and our lives, happiness, and well-being (and our childrens’ lives) are worth more than week-old coagulated ejaculate. You want fewer abortions, that’s fine. Be my guest. Please volunteer at Planned Parenthood providing the public with knowledge and contraception. Ending up accidentally pregnant is a terrible, terrible reason to become a parent.
I would also take a gamble and guess that the vast majority of you weeping over the little lost zygotes eat animals (baby animals at that) every single day, and those animals suffer and feel more than the fetuses you champion.

*Guttmacher Institute.

Guttmacher Institute study? They talked to 38 women! I would hardly call that a true study of the type of women who have abortions in this country. And hardly an unbiased source. Just look at their website.

AJ-

These people are not honest, I doubt they believe their own bullshit, but they’re always working from an ideology to do with pro-reproduction, anti-sex, or belief in souls.

Allow me to change that to refer to the pro abortion side-

“These people are not honest. I doubt they believe their own bullshit, but they are always working from an ideology of pro-death, sex without consequences and a lack of belief in souls.”

Sterotyping sucks doesn’t it.

Robert W.,

Allow me to change that to refer to the pro abortion side-

“These people are not honest. I doubt they believe their own bullshit, but they are always working from an ideology of pro-death, sex without consequences and a lack of belief in souls.”

Sterotyping sucks doesn’t it.

Anti-abortion people don’t necessarily hold all the beliefs in their ideology I mentioned, that’s why I used “or” instead of “and”. If you haven’t changed that I would be perfectly happy with your statement. All pro-choice people I’ve heard from hold at least one of those positions, none have been pro-death, all have been promoted sex without consequences (unless they want them obviously), and some lack a belief in souls. In my experience, and after reading from anti-abortion political groups, anti-abortion people have so far all held at least one of those positions.

I believe in the sanctity of life. Do you know the Catholic Church is pro-life and does not support the death penalty? It’s hypocritical for anyone to say they don’t support the death penalty but they think killing the innocent is fine and vice versa?
We are not rabbits in heat. Self-control is what seperates us from mere animals. If you don’t want to get pregnant, don’t have sex! Self-mastery is a virtue..how is it the baby’s fault that their mother is irresponsible?
So what is an abortion? What does it actually do? Questions for “pro-choice”– what about the baby’s choice?
Pro-life is pro-woman! A woman’s body is not an object but a temple!